On what attracted her to Adeshola Jeremiah
Well he is a quiet person and if not for the fact that I am into
entertainment, I also like my privacy, I don’t like unnecessary
show-off. If I go somewhere and they don’t recognize me, that is very
okay by me, I just love to be myself.
How They Met
He saw me when I went for their program in Odunfa Cancus (A Yoruba
Theatre Group). I went because of a friend of mine Latifat, who was also
trained there. She was in UNILAG and my junior in Theatre Arts. So I
went there and that was where he saw me and that was like so many years
ago in 2005.
Every time I visit my friend, because they are always together, he
will see me there, he couldn’t approach me, not because of my status but
the fact that anytime I come I will just play with everyone for like 5
to 10 minutes and just zoom off. And I play and smile with everyone but I
don’t give that chance that I am easily approachable in order not to
draw unnecessary attention.
Things Were Different This Time…
Then in 2008, he was shooting his own movie, I also went there to see a
friend of mine, he saw me again and went to meet that friend of mine, he
told her he wanted to meet me that he would want me to play a role in
the movie.
My friend discouraged him saying if he should meet me, it will look
like they didn’t plan themselves well. That same year, he was with that
my friend when I came to visit and he told her “I really want to marry
Princess” (laughs) and my friend started laughing and she told him it’s
not possible.
He kept on pestering her and told her why don’t you tell her first
and lets hear what she says, she (Latifat) now said I don’t think I can
tell her, Princess is my very close friend and I can’t tell her that
because Princess doesn’t have time for men now and she has said it’s her
work for now. But he continued disturbing her to tell me, so that day
we were watching a TV program and I love cooking so she saw a dish and
said this dish is very nice how I wish I could eat it now and I said oh
you want me to stand up and go prepare this food, so when I went to the
kitchen.
She later came into the kitchen and said she wanted to tell me
something, and I said what is it, she said this person likes me and
wants to marry me, so I just started laughing, it was very funny, she
felt embarrassed and went back to the sitting room, I asked her why
won’t I be embarrassed, when the person told you, why didn’t you just
tell him Princess won’t agree and she said that’s exactly what she told
the person but the person insisted.
I told her to give the person my number, and when he called I was
just laughing, he asked “what’s funny”, I said nothing, he now said
“well he is Latifat’s friend” and I said yes I know that, and I started
bombarding him with questions just to discourage him, so he won’t call
again.
So when his credit got finished, he called back again. I said this
one I have been asking him many questions na wa o but its okay do I have
more questions to ask? and I said yes o and started asking him more
questions, I asked him questions again till 11:30 PM, he ran out of
credit again and called back, and I am like where are you getting all
the money for this credit, he just said “don’t worry I will call you
back”, when he called back again he asked if I had more questions and I
said no because it was already past midnight and we have been talking
since past 6.
Friend to Fiance
That was it! We later became friends and got very close, then he said he
wanted to marry me and even told me many things about myself. I was
quite surprised and wondered how he got to know all about me. That was
how we started and things continued but we just decided to keep
everything low key. At first I felt it was low key and if he disappionts
me, it won’t hurt too much, but when everything became too serious that
was how everything went then we started meeting our families and I
discovered that some people he knew, were also the same people I know.
On her sudden wedding announcement
Yes we have been planning it but because my sister was getting married
on February 14th, we just felt that hers is the reigning wedding and
they were the latest
couple, so we concentrated more on hers and also we were trying to avoid the news reaching the press.
So I think 3 weeks or about a month to our wedding, we had already
done the introduction and that was when we now started distributing the
invitations, because we said if we give people the IVs earlier, news
will go around. My husband started distributing his cards a month to the
wedding but I started 2 and a half weeks to the wedding because I just
said everybody will hear.
On not wanting to publicize her Wedding
The thing is, that’s the kind of person I am. I am just there, I just
believe I am like every other Nigerian and even though my work has
exposed me and made me to be seen or perceived as a celebrity, my
partner is not a public person like that and we just didn’t want too
much noise.
Even the day I sent text messages to some of my friends, the next day
I started reading so many stories on the internet, and you can imagine
that people wrote on the internet that Princess is getting married
because she was pregnant and now she is trying to get one guy to marry
her.
It was even my husband who saw it and called my attention to it. He
was lying on the couch and just laughing and I was like, what’s funny
and who are you chatting with?, he just said there is something they
wrote on the internet and I said what, he just said it’s on Facebook,
they said you are pregnant, and I said don’t mind them but I just felt
bad because people sometimes naturally find it difficult to be happy for
others.
Even now that I am married, I pray to have kids but you can’t start
spreading rumours that somebody is getting married because they are
pregnant. You don’t have an insight nor information about them, you
can’t reach those people so you just write anything you want. But anyway
I didn’t let that bother me, I just kept it to myself. Even when I was
rehearsing for my show because we had two different dance routines and
it was difficult, so I didn’t even have time to dwell on that.
On what she loves most about him
I love everything about him and he is very understanding. He understands
the essence of us being on earth which is just to worship God and he is
God fearing.
That’s the first thing I noticed about him and I was even surprised. I
have always said If I had choice, I will marry a musician but then
which musician can I now marry (laughs). He is very God fearing and at
least we are not perfect but if you are God fearing, you will always
know when you are doing something wrong.