KEEPING THE FIRE BURNING IN A RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE

It’s no new news that excitement dies in a relationship after sometime, and it’s surprisingly fast this days. And it has become a concern to me, since a friend of mine has become a victim. So i decided to do a little research about it, don’t know much, but the little i’ve  learnt i’ll share here, and would welcome more suggestions from you guys.

Start Dating Again, I think re-dating your spouse could work, like going to cinemas to watch a movie once or twice in a week, going out to new restaurants that you’ve not been to before.

Communication, this is very important and works wonders, sharing your thoughts and ideas with your spouse, listen when they want to share anything is very good. It’s also good to let your spouse know how you really feel about the sex you’re having, don’t be shy about it, and also if your spouse is doing something that is not arousing you, suggests ways at which they could improve. And don’t forget to encourage them to guide you, let them also tell you what you need to improve on to satisfy them.

Foreplay, is another important factor, you can never get enough of it, women need more stimulation to be able to orgasm. So it’s always good to start with extended foreplay. And don’t limit s*x or foreplay to the bedroom, experiment new things.

Positions, s*x becomes sour when you are stuck with the same position your entire relationship. Try new styles and positions that’s suits the both of you, discuss what you both like and give it try, if it does not work, try another one, keep trying new and different positions to keep it fresh. S*x is an important part of a relationship and should be enjoyed, not managed.

How duo you keep love alive in your relationship? please share with us...

How do you keep Love alive in your relationship/marriage, let us know...