Kefee Talks About Life And Marriage

Our very own ‘branama’ singer Kefee Obareki Esosa popularly known as Kefee, has expressed her love for her husband Teddy ‘Don Momoh’ Esosa. According to her...

“my husband is a very nice man and I’m enjoying my marriage. I’m writing a book about that beautiful part of my life, but I don’t want to reveal much about it for now. I am so happy and as far as I’m concerned this is my first real marriage”.

Kefee was once married to Alec Godwin, but the marriage crumbled.

The delta state born songstress had a recent chat with Saturday Beats during the week and revealed, she will begin starring in movies anytime from now.

She told Saturday Beats, “there is nothing wrong with acting. Mr. Ibu(John Okafor) actually dragged me into Nollywood. He bought a form for me and dragged me into it. So yes, you will soon be seeing me in movies”.

When asked if she will be quitting music for acting... She strongly replied, “No way”

She said, “I cannot quit music for anything. I may be the only one singing or acting, but i do not work alone. I have people who work with me and try to get the best out of me. I have ideas and I bring them out, and my people advice me on them. You cannot do everything alone”.

She gave an advice to women in abusive relationships,: to get out as fast as you can while you still have a chance.

She gave this advice because she has experienced domestic violence and abuse in her previous marriage. Now she has recovered from it, and told Saturday Beats that she is very happy.

“I feel really fulfilled now. I am happier, I wake up early in the morning and I am happy, and I think that is the way life should be. Not to be living in fear of the unknown. My husband is a very nice guy. The bottom line is that I am happy. As far as I am concerned, this is the first time I am getting married”. She said.

She also told Saturday Beats that for a man to hit a woman, means he can kill her.

“Domestic violence was basically what destroyed my previous marriage. Like I always say, ‘if you are in an abusive relationship, it is better you take a walk’. It is because what the person is doing to you, he may not do it to another person. I have a lot of employees and I have studied them.

“I know that there are things you do to someone and he can take, but another person cannot. People are different. The person abusing you might not have the guts to do so to another person. Whatever will make a man to raise his hands to beat you. The worst place to die is in a place like that; where you are supposed to be loved. It is better to die in the battle front, or anywhere.

“There are a thousand and one ways to die, but that is the worst place to die. Where you are supposed to be loved and cared for, you die there; it is the worst place ever. I do not think any woman should wait for that.

“Look at me, I am an example. People are going to talk; they would definitely say things that are going to hurt you. Things that can cause hypertension; look at Goldie now. A lot of people said nasty things about her since she died. She had hypertension, now she is gone. You just have to live your life.

As far as I am concerned, people will definitely talk, whether you do right or wrong. When you know that you cannot please everybody in life, that is when you start living. That is as far as I am concerned”.